RELATIONSHIPS

"DETTOL"

After doing 4 years of Long-Distance, my wife and I got married. We are from different countries and cultures. Our first year of marriage was filled with...many learning moments. And it was through an incident involving "Dettol" that suddenly some things made sense.

Because of how "Dettol" was used in our families, I was totally turned off and irritated with how much my wife used it to clean the house. But thank God, because I realised in a conversation with her about how important and crucial "Dettol" was in the day to day functions of her family. Suddenly something that was bringing me frustrations became a window into how my wife was loving US.

And as I continued to learn to love her more through the years, I learnt so much about how I could have done better coming into marriage, and so that is why I am doing this. The journey to marriage, and through marriage doesn't have to be a lonely & clueless one. I am your friend who will do this with you.

Sometimes, you just need someone to give you a pat on the back and tell you:

"That is very normal. It is not bad or strange. You just need to learn to choose better next time!"

Let me be your friend as you take steps towards committing your lives together!

In this segment, you can explore our Marriage Prep, or Relationship Strengths Coaching!