Marriage shouldn't be hard. If you love one another, it shouldn't be hard. Yet if you don't put in the Heart-work, you'll end up doing the Hard Work! Our Marriage Prep integrates best practises of Couples Therapy, Psychometric Assessments & Relationship Strengths Coaching to facilitate a deeper understanding of self & one another.
This is the most practical marriage preparation you will find!
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I will build a context and framework to facilitate an intentional & honest exchange. I will translate what is deeper & unspoken to bridge the both of you. This will form a strong unity and foundation for all the other parts that will come!
What an experience! To be honest, my wife and I weren't sure how much these sessions would actually help us because we were already at a pretty good place but we were so surprised at the outcome! We discovered so many crucial personality traits about each other which gave us a much clearer understanding on why we do the things we do and react the way we do. Wayne not only helped us talk through our challenges with dealing with each other, but was also extremely helpful in guiding us through our strengths and weaknesses. Wayne made many wise suggestions on how we can support each other in simple ways that we can apply daily. It's almost like we finally understood how to love each other! Going through this sessions with Wayne truly refreshed our marriage life! It's as if there's fresh oil flowing through our relationship now! We encourage every couple to do this as early as possible!
We love the sessions initiated by Wayne. He took the time and effort to study our individual profiles, and used that to help us understand one another in deeper ways. The sessions were helpful for the both of us in the early stage of our relationship as they accelerated the process of us knowing and understanding each other. Also, through some of the questions prompted by Wayne, we discovered some blind areas in our lives, and gained insight into areas of potential conflict. This was helpful in preparing us to deal with possible challenges ahead. We also love his authentic and vulnerable sharing about his own life. It’s a big deal for us because now we know that we’re not alone in this journey.
In the beginning, I was afraid to commit to yet another "weekly meeting" on top of work commitments. Opening up to strangers about our life story was something I could not wrap my head around – ‘why would anyone want to do that?’ Having spent 5 Sundays with you, I must say we look forward to our meetings - it is a pause, a "staccato" from our usual fast-paced workdays where clients overload you with queries and requests. I am very thankful we took this journey on, and I have expressed my appreciation abundantly to L, for her initiative to set us on this journey. Sometimes, we even remark, "Wah 1.5 hours with Wayne like too short?"
We were introduced to Wayne for marriage preparation and counselling. We completed a total of 5 sessions and each session was very engaging and applicable. Wayne is very personable and relatable. He provided a safe environment for us to openly discuss potential areas for improvements in our relationship. He was able to relate to both of us individually based on our strengths/ personality profiles and verbalized our thought processes & actions so accurately.
He was also able to identify key areas that we need to work on in our relationship and gave solid and practical suggestions/advice. That was something that we appreciated right from the first day of our session. Furthermore he makes each session quite interactive and exciting with his good sense of humour and amicable personality. We highly recommend couples to attend Wayne's counselling session.